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When Pleasure Opens the Door to Grief: Why Some Trauma Survivors Cry After Orgasm
Some trauma survivors are surprised or confused when they cry after an orgasm. This response is often misunderstood or pathologized, but from an Interpersonal Neurobiology perspective, it makes sense. Orgasm involves a temporary drop in control and vigilance. The body … Continue reading →
Emotional Deprivation: How ‘Crying It Out’ Shapes Brain Development and Contributes to Personality Disorders
After my first child was born, my then mother-in-law repeatedly insisted I should “Just let her cry,” alone in her crib because “it won’t hurt her.” My instincts said my baby needed safe connection, and I followed my instincts. From … Continue reading →
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