Building Bridges, Not Walls: The Relational Antidote to Extremism

An article at PsyPost reveals a connection between genetic essentialism and “nationalism, xenophobia, racism, right-wing authoritarianism, social-dominance orientation, sexism and conservative ideology.”

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, these traits can be seen as adaptive responses to unmet relational and environmental needs, especially when individuals grow up in contexts lacking safety, attunement, and relational connection.

When people experience chronic uncertainty, disconnection, or threat–whether in their homes, communities, or societies–they may gravitate toward rigid beliefs, us-vs-them thinking, and strict social hierarchies as attempts to create a sense of order, predictability, and control. In this light, traits such as social dominance orientation or right-wing authoritarianism aren’t innate flaws, but survival adaptations shaped by relational and sociocultural environments that foster fear, mistrust, and emotional neglect.

IPNB emphasizes how human development is shaped through relationships. When relational experiences are marked by fear, shame, or conditional acceptance, people may learn to guard against vulnerability by aligning with ideologies that promise strength, purity, or belonging, often at the expense of others’ humanity. Insecure relational patterns can give rise to worldviews that divide and devalue, especially when broader systems reinforce competition over cooperation, scarcity over care, and punishment over repair.

An IPNB-informed lens would advocate for addressing the relational conditions that lead people to feel unsafe, unseen, or powerless, and thus more susceptible to dehumanizing ideologies. This means cultivating communities and systems rooted in compassion, inclusion, mutual respect, and co-regulation, monitoring for extremist beliefs, and transforming the environments that breed them.

About Shay Seaborne, CPTSD

Shay Seaborne CPTSD teaches Relational Neuroscience for stress reduction, trauma recovery, and community building. Shay has studied the neurobiology of fear / trauma /PTSD since 2014 and Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) since 2019. They write, speak, teach, and make art to convey their experiences as well as their understanding of the neurobiology of fear, trauma theory, Interpersonal Neurobiology concepts, and principles of trauma recovery. A native of Northern Virginia, Shay settled in Delaware to sail KALMAR NYCKEL, the state’s tall ship. But once they finally had mental health insurance, their life rapidly changed. The standard treatment for PTSD nearly killed them. The psychiatric abuse began a cascade of negative medical encounters that repeatedly caused additional harm and the development of severe Medical PTSD. Shay wishes everyone could recognize that "mental health problems" are symptoms of dysregulation, our mainstream culture is neuro-negative, and we can heal ourselves and each other through awareness, understanding, and safe connection.
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