The Great Misdiagnosis: Why Medical Trauma Requires a Different Lens

The standard treatment for PTSD is the problem. It nearly killed me. And then the standard treatment for that was even worse. It locked me into psychiatric hospitalization for 8 days and nights. There, my rights were violated, I received no individual therapy, and I was threatened with commitment if I tried to leave before my insurance benefits ran out. That combination of mistreatment left me in far worse condition than when I asked for help just 5 weeks earlier.

PTSD is not a single, uniform condition just because the mental illness industry gives it the same diagnostic label. The source, context, and ongoing nature of the threat matter enormously for how it shows up and what actually helps. 

Medical trauma is real, and for many of us, it is distinct because the threat comes from the place that is supposed to provide care, safety, and relief. When harm is repeated, sanctioned, and denied inside medical systems, the nervous system learns something very different than what it does from a one-time event.

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) lens, recovery depends on whether the environment stops re-exposing the person to threat and whether their lived experience is accurately named and responded to. A generic “tailored treatment plan with a licensed therapist” fails when the therapist does not understand medical power dynamics, bodily violation, betrayal by authority, or the way ongoing medical needs keep the threat active. Coping strategies do not restore regulation when the harm is relentless.

I worked with therapists for 6.5 years and fired 13 of them. None could help me with Medical PTSD. They did not understand the physiology, relational betrayal, or cumulative harm. They defaulted to techniques designed for discrete past events, not ongoing medical exposure. They had no clue. No clue.

The current standard of care is insufficient for many people with medical trauma. If it worked, people like me would not have to build our own recovery plans from scratch just to survive.

When treatment ignores power, embodiment, and the ongoing nature of medical harm, it fails. That failure belongs to the system, not the person living with the trauma.

About Shay Seaborne, CPTSD

Shay Seaborne CPTSD teaches Relational Neuroscience for stress reduction, trauma recovery, and community building. Shay has studied the neurobiology of fear / trauma /PTSD since 2014 and Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) since 2019. They write, speak, teach, and make art to convey their experiences as well as their understanding of the neurobiology of fear, trauma theory, Interpersonal Neurobiology concepts, and principles of trauma recovery. A native of Northern Virginia, Shay settled in Delaware to sail KALMAR NYCKEL, the state’s tall ship. But once they finally had mental health insurance, their life rapidly changed. The standard treatment for PTSD nearly killed them. The psychiatric abuse began a cascade of negative medical encounters that repeatedly caused additional harm and the development of severe Medical PTSD. Shay wishes everyone could recognize that "mental health problems" are symptoms of dysregulation, our mainstream culture is neuro-negative, and we can heal ourselves and each other through awareness, understanding, and safe connection.
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