We Need Self Care and Collective Care

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, both collective care and self-care are essential for promoting overall well-being. IPNB emphasizes the interconnectedness of individuals within social systems and highlights the impact of interpersonal relationships on brain development and functioning.

Self-care focuses on individual practices that nurture mental, emotional, and physical health. This includes activities like exercise, meditation, adequate sleep, and healthy eating habits. Self-care is crucial for maintaining personal resilience and managing stress, as it supports the regulation of one’s own nervous system.

However, collective care complements self-care by acknowledging the importance of social connections and support networks in shaping brain development and mental health. Human beings are inherently social creatures, and our brains are wired to seek out and thrive within supportive social environments. Collective care involves fostering relationships, building communities, and engaging in acts of mutual support and compassion.

From an IPNB perspective, collective care is necessary because:

1. Regulation through relationships: Interpersonal relationships play a vital role in regulating our nervous systems. Positive social interactions, such as empathy, validation, and emotional support, help to promote feelings of safety and security, which in turn contribute to emotional regulation and stress reduction.

2. Co-regulation: Humans have the capacity to regulate each other’s emotions and nervous systems through empathetic attunement and mutual support. Being part of a supportive community allows individuals to co-regulate each other’s emotions, providing comfort and stability during times of distress.

3. Social engagement systems: Social connections activate the brain’s social engagement system, which is associated with feelings of pleasure, connection, and well-being. Engaging in collective care activities, such as group discussions, shared meals, or collaborative projects, activates this system and promotes positive emotions and mental health.

4. Sense of belonging: Belonging to a supportive community provides individuals with a sense of belonging and identity, which are fundamental human needs. Feeling connected to others and valued within a community contributes to overall life satisfaction and resilience in the face of adversity.

Collective care complements self-care by recognizing the importance of social connections and supportive relationships in promoting overall well-being. By fostering communities of mutual support and compassion, collective care contributes to emotional regulation, stress reduction, and enhanced mental health from an IPNB perspective.

This post includes content generated by ChatGPT, a language model developed by OpenAI. The AI-generated content has been reviewed and edited for accuracy and relevance.

About Shay Seaborne, CPTSD

Former tall ship sailor turned trauma awareness activist-artist Shay Seaborne, CPTSD has studied the neurobiology of fear / trauma /PTSD since 2015. She writes, speaks, teaches, and makes art to convey her experiences as well as her understanding of the neurobiology of fear, trauma theory, and principles of trauma recovery. A native of Northern Virginia, Shay settled in Delaware to sail KALMAR NYCKEL, the state’s tall ship. She wishes everyone could recognize PTSD is not a mental health problem, but a neurophysiological condition rooted in dysregulation, our mainstream culture is neuro-negative, and we need to understand we can heal ourselves and each other through awareness, understanding, and safe connection.
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