Trust as Medicine: A Six-Year Journey in Craniosacral Therapy

After six years of working together, my craniosacral practitioner finally felt my cranial rhythmic impulse. That moment is huge. It’s not just a technical milestone, but proof of how much my nervous system has had to work to regulate, reorganize, and release over time.

From a Relational Neuroscience perspective, this isn’t a technique “working.” It’s my system learning it’s safe enough to reconnect to subtle rhythms, which chronic stress, trauma, and repeated threat often block. My nervous system has had to navigate constant pressure from the outside world and internal vigilance, and now it’s allowing a more fluid, integrated pattern to emerge.

This moment also reflects trust built over time. From the very first session, my body recognized my craniosacral practitioner as safe, “a mountain of calm.” That effect has been steady, even through the years of challenging work. When a small rupture happened along the way, he repaired it immediately, and that restoration contributed to 3 days of significant symptom relief.

This is what relational care looks like. Slow, steady, attuned work doesn’t just treat symptoms. It changes the body’s experience of itself. I keep going because I can trust him. And now, six years in, that trust is embodied in a fluid flow he can finally feel.

About Shay Seaborne, CPTSD

Shay Seaborne CPTSD teaches Relational Neuroscience for stress reduction, trauma recovery, and community building. Shay has studied the neurobiology of fear / trauma /PTSD since 2014 and Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) since 2019. They write, speak, teach, and make art to convey their experiences as well as their understanding of the neurobiology of fear, trauma theory, Interpersonal Neurobiology concepts, and principles of trauma recovery. A native of Northern Virginia, Shay settled in Delaware to sail KALMAR NYCKEL, the state’s tall ship. But once they finally had mental health insurance, their life rapidly changed. The standard treatment for PTSD nearly killed them. The psychiatric abuse began a cascade of negative medical encounters that repeatedly caused additional harm and the development of severe Medical PTSD. Shay wishes everyone could recognize that "mental health problems" are symptoms of dysregulation, our mainstream culture is neuro-negative, and we can heal ourselves and each other through awareness, understanding, and safe connection.
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