Category Archives: Predators
A Collective Roar: The Public Demand For the Epstein Files
The demand to expose the Epstein files has turned into a collective roar. People across political lines, class lines, and belief systems want the truth. That shows how deep this runs. Sexualized violence against children hits something primal in us. … Continue reading
They Hurt Us to Feel Powerful: What a Predator Is About
People often ask why someone would do something so devastating as what I’ve experienced. Why would a parent create a coercive, dangerous environment for their child? Why would someone keep a young person trapped and isolated, controlling every part of … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, abusers, harm, institutional betrayal, IPNB, Medicine, predators, victim
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Reputation Over People: Institutions Protect Predators
Institutions that protect predators prioritize reputation over people. When faced with credible reports of abuse, many institutions first seek to contain the damage, not investigate or stop the harm. This includes pressuring victims to stay silent, covering up records, or … Continue reading
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Tagged accountability, Community, gaslighting, healing, institutions, predators, public pressure, support
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The Most Predatory Systems in America
In America today, several systems are notoriously predatory because they extract resources–money, labor, health, or dignity–from people without providing safety, care, or fairness in return. These systems often target the most vulnerable while shielding those with wealth and power. Here … Continue reading
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Tagged abuse, Behavioral Health, big pharma, Black, child welfare, children, criminal, disabled, employment, healthcare, housing, immigration, indigenous, labor, legal, Mental Health, migrants, poor, predators, predatory, predatory systems, real estate, surveillance, tech, welfare, workforce
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Top 10 Early Warning Signs of Serial Abusers or Predators
Predators and other abusers rarely act at random. From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, their behaviors follow relational patterns shaped by a need to control, dominate, and avoid accountability. These patterns are often visible if we know what to look … Continue reading
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Tagged boundary violations, grooming, hospitals, image control, institutions, IPNB, patterns, predators
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Cutting the Roots of Human-on-Human Predation
The article, “Human on Human Predation” at the bonesofculture blog raises deep and disturbing truths that Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) can help illuminate. From an IPNB lens, predation is more than a behavioral problem or moral failure; it’s a reflection of a … Continue reading
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Tagged accountabiity, culture, environments, human predators, justice, predators, thriving
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Who Do Predators Target and Why?
Predators are not randomly drawn to people; they are strategic. They operate by scanning for individuals whose nervous systems and relational patterns make them more likely to override their discomfort, downplay warning signs, and give others the benefit of the … Continue reading
Institutional Betrayal: Protection for Predators, Harm for the Rest of Us
I learned about institutional betrayal after I reported a predatory gynecologist to the state licensing board. Instead of holding the abuser accountable, the board and the attorney general’s office stood by him. This so negatively affected my nervous system that … Continue reading
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Tagged betrayal, connection, institutional betrayal, IPNB, power dynamics, predators, safety, Trauma
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Why They Picked You: How Predators Groom, Test, and Exploit Relational Intelligence
From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, predators are not randomly drawn to people; they are strategic. They operate by scanning for individuals whose nervous systems and relational patterns make them more likely to override their discomfort, downplay warning signs, and … Continue reading
The Overlap Between Narcissists and Predators
There is significant overlap between human predators and narcissistic behaviors, but they aren’t identical. Narcissistic behaviors often arise from deep relational injury and an underdeveloped sense of self that was shaped in environments where worth had to be earned through … Continue reading