Category Archives: Mental Health

Why ‘Just Let It Go’ Falls Short: The Healing Power of Empathy

It seems like people who say dismissive things to trauma survivors like “just let it go” don’t consciously realize why they say them. This was the case with my friend of many years, who repeatedly told me to “just let … Continue reading

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Palm-Sized Neurobiology: The Hand Model of the Brain

The “hand model of the brain,” (video) created by Dr. Dan Siegel, is a simple and visual way to understand basic brain functions. It’s especially useful from an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective. Here’s why Easy to Understand The hand model … Continue reading

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“Victim Mentality” Explained

Unless referring to the machinations of narcissists, who victimize others and pretend they’re the victims, “victim mentality” is a term coined and used by those who actually want to blame the victimized for speaking up about their abuse experience. This … Continue reading

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An Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) View of Loving Somebody Who is “Damaged”

 A meme on social media stated that one can “Never know how much a person is ‘damaged’ until you try to love them.” “Damaged” is a pathologizing term. From an interpersonal neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, the idea that you never know … Continue reading

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What is a Cohesive Narrative?

A cohesive narrative is a clear and organized story about your life. It means understanding your past experiences, both good and bad, and fitting them together into one big picture. This helps you see how your past has shaped who … Continue reading

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Unlocking the Secrets of Social Bonds: The Role of Neurochemicals in Building Community

Oxytocin, known as the “love hormone,” fosters emotional bonds and trust through positive social interactions like hugging and childbirth. Serotonin contributes to mood and social behavior, while dopamine’s release reinforces positive social interactions. Endorphins act as natural painkillers and mood enhancers, enhancing well-being and social bonding. Balancing these neurochemicals is crucial for fostering trust and building meaningful relationships. Continue reading

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Shifting Focus: Neuroplasticity Techniques to Relieve the Cycle of Rumination

From a neurophysiological standpoint, persistent rumination is likely a manifestation of the nervous system’s attempt to process and integrate traumatic memories This rumination often leads to distress without providing resolution or healing. Here are some better alternatives. Focus your attention … Continue reading

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Hopkins Pain Clinic Fail

In the fall of 2022, on insistence from a pain specialist, I was tangling with the healthcare system for access to a clinical consultation with the head of the Johns Hopkins Blaustein Pain Treatment Center. I wish I hadn’t. The … Continue reading

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