Tag Archives: connection

Emotional Deprivation: How ‘Crying It Out’ Shapes Brain Development and Contributes to Personality Disorders

After my first child was born, my then mother-in-law repeatedly insisted I should “Just let her cry,” alone in her crib because “it won’t hurt her.” My instincts said my baby needed safe connection, and I followed my instincts. From … Continue reading

Posted in Children | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Understanding Incels, an Interpersonal Neurobiology Perspective

Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) highlights the importance of early attachment relationships in shaping our brain development and social behaviors. Secure attachments in childhood foster healthy emotional regulation and social skills. In contrast, insecure attachments can lead to difficulties in forming and … Continue reading

Posted in Mental Health | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Misogyny and Violence: the Neurobiological Connection

The connection between misogyny and violence can be deeply understood through the lens of Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB), which explores how our brain, body, and relationships are intricately connected. From this perspective, misogyny and violence are not just social phenomena but … Continue reading

Posted in IPNB of Hierarchy | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Cultivating Safe Relationships When You Have No Support

Safe relationships are vital to trauma recovery and general well-being. For many, the idea of forming safe and supportive relationships seems daunting, especially if they don’t have anyone in their life they can truly rely on. But building these connections … Continue reading

Posted in Community | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Safety in Uncertainty: Protecting Ourselves and Others Through IPNB

In times of growing fear and division, such as those surrounding political uncertainty, it’s vital to mindfully choose our safety strategies for our own well-being and the collective health of those around us. As another Trump administration looms on the … Continue reading

Posted in Community, Mental Health | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Connection Over Control: Why IPNB is the Antidote to Dominance Hierarchies

Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) supports the reduction of hierarchy, especially when it comes to relationships, organizations, and social structures. IPNB, developed by Dr. Dan Siegel, is grounded in the idea that human beings thrive in environments that promote connection, attunement, empathy, … Continue reading

Posted in IPNB of Hierarchy | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Empathy as a Cultural Foundation: Leveraging IPNB to Dismantle Hierarchy and Foster Widespread Thriving

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, undermining the domination hierarchy and building a culture that fosters widespread human thriving involves creating environments that support the natural human capacities for connection, empathy, and mutual support. Here’s how this can be approached: … Continue reading

Posted in IPNB of Hierarchy | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Election Aftermath: Shifting from Fear to Safety in Uncertain Times

If thinking about the future makes you feel afraid, you’re normal. And, your nervous system needs support. Chronic fear and the resulting hypervigilance are the biggest disruptors to nervous system health, self-regulation, homeostasis, and overall well-being. Our nervous systems scan … Continue reading

Posted in Mental Health, Politics, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Post-Election Stress Relief: Community and Boundaries Can Protect Your Mental Health

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, maintaining your mental health in the face of overwhelming stress involves focusing on what you can control, specifically your relationships and sense of community. Seek out environments where you feel safe and understood. These … Continue reading

Posted in Politics | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment