Tag Archives: Trauma

“The God Shot”: Magical Thinking for a Culture That Refuses to Change

Dr. Eugene Lipov, who helped develop the use of Stellate Ganglion Block (SGB) for PTSD, announced the release of his new book, “The God Shot.” The title also refers to a medical procedure he calls a “Dual Sympathetic Reset (DSR).” … Continue reading

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When Pleasure Opens the Door to Grief: Why Some Trauma Survivors Cry After Orgasm

Some trauma survivors are surprised or confused when they cry after an orgasm. This response is often misunderstood or pathologized, but from an Interpersonal Neurobiology perspective, it makes sense. Orgasm involves a temporary drop in control and vigilance. The body … Continue reading

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The 20 Best Things You Can Say to a Person in Distress 

Supportive language prioritizes validation, respect, and presence rather than minimizing, fixing, or forcing someone into a specific healing path. 1. “I believe you.” Validates their experience and counters disbelief. 2. “What happened to you was not your fault.” Removes blame … Continue reading

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“The God Shot”: Magical Thinking for a Culture That Refuses to Change

Dr. Eugene Lipov, who helped develop the use of Stellate Ganglion Blocks (SGB) for PTSD, announced the release of his new book, “The God Shot.” The title refers to a medical procedure he also calls a “Dual Sympathetic Reset (DSR).” … Continue reading

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Why Conversations End When You Expose the Hierarchy 

A few months ago, I agreed to a podcast interview with a prominent pain specialist, someone widely known for using Stellate Ganglion Blocks (SGBs) to treat people diagnosed with PTSD. He states that the shot works fast, with people often … Continue reading

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Nothing Left to Lose: How I Became Free Enough to Tell the Truth

I became an activist and artist because I was stripped of almost everything: health, stability, belonging, and safety. I had nothing left to lose. I had worked so hard to do well in this toxic culture. I tried to go … Continue reading

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The DSM Misses the Mark: IPNB Offers a Humane and Scientific Understanding of Mental Health

Some trauma experts have said that if the psychiatric Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) acknowledged trauma, it would be a very thin volume because virtually everything else would fall beneath it. But from an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) … Continue reading

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When Your Partner Cannot or Refuses to Understand Trauma

One of the most destabilizing dynamics for a trauma-impacted nervous system is not the original harm. It is ongoing misattunement inside an intimate relationship. When a partner cannot or refuses to understand trauma, the problem is not a lack of … Continue reading

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The Egregious Falsehood of “Post-Traumatic Growth”

People sometimes tell me I am experiencing “post-traumatic growth.” They say it like it’s a compliment, and I should feel encouraged. As if this is the gold at the end of seven years of fighting for my life. That’s a … Continue reading

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From Trauma to Truth: How I Became Anti-Psychiatry

I became anti-psychiatry because of what psychiatry did to me and what I saw it do to others. I walked in with severe Complex PTSD. They put me on Lexapro. The suicidal ideations started about 3 weeks after. When I … Continue reading

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