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When Therapy Isn’t Therapeutic

Safety is the foundation of any therapeutic relationship, especially for trauma survivors. It is the therapist’s responsibility to create that sense of safety when the client cannot. This is their first and most crucial task. Without safety, there can be … Continue reading

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Elon Musk and the Normalization of Aggressive Masculinity: A Neurobiological Perspective

Ultra-rich men like Elon Musk can significantly affect the general population, especially in shaping societal attitudes toward issues like identity, success, masculinity, and behavior. From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, the behaviors and attitudes exhibited by influential figures like Musk … Continue reading

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The Yo-Yo Trajectory of Hell: Standard Treatment for PTSD

Standard Treatment Hell For many survivors of trauma, the journey through standard PTSD treatment is an endless cycle of frustration, pain, and betrayal. Despite the widespread acknowledgment of trauma’s role in mental health, conventional treatments often fail to address the … Continue reading

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Why “Regulate Your Emotions” is the Wrong Goal

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, emotions aren’t something we simply regulate directly through willpower or control; instead, they are the product of a regulated nervous system. The nervous system, when in balance, naturally produces emotional responses that are more … Continue reading

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Election Aftermath: Shifting from Fear to Safety in Uncertain Times

If thinking about the future makes you feel afraid, you’re normal. And, your nervous system needs support. Chronic fear and the resulting hypervigilance are the biggest disruptors to nervous system health, self-regulation, homeostasis, and overall well-being. Our nervous systems scan … Continue reading

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Restoring Balance: The Role of Interpersonal Neurobiology in Native American Healing

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, the biggest challenges faced by Native American populations are deeply intertwined with historical trauma, systemic injustice, and disrupted relational connections across generations. IPNB, which emphasizes the importance of relationships, social environments, and neurobiology in … Continue reading

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We Need Self Care and Collective Care

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, both collective care and self-care are essential for promoting overall well-being. IPNB emphasizes the interconnectedness of individuals within social systems and highlights the impact of interpersonal relationships on brain development and functioning. Self-care focuses … Continue reading

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An Interpersonal Neurobiology View of Pity, Sympathy, Empathy, and Compassion

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, understanding the differences between sympathy, empathy, and compassion involves examining how each affects our brain, mind, and relational dynamics. Pity Definition: Pity involves feeling sorrow or regret for someone else’s misfortune, often accompanied by … Continue reading

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The Hand Model of the Brain: A Tool for Understanding and Managing Stress

When somebody is “flipping their lid,” it’s a clear sign that they are overwhelmed and not in control of their emotions. In these moments, what’s going on in their brain, and how can we help them? The Brain on Red … Continue reading

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The Neurobiological Solution to Our Troubled World

What’s the cause of the turmoil in the world today? From a Relational Neuroscience informed view, the reason is disconnection. The mainstream culture, driven by the domination hierarchy–now corporatized–separates us from ourselves, each other, and our place in the world. … Continue reading

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