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Medical Sabbaticals: Reducing Exposure as Harm Reduction in Healthcare

It’s awful to be disbelieved, unseen, minimized, and dismissed, particularly by the people we turn to for support and help. It’s also really bad for the nervous system. This is part of why I cut way back on seeing healthcare … Continue reading

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Practitioner Certainty Blindness: The Problem with Wrongful Reassurance

Six years ago, I was dying from hypercritical allostatic load: far too much stress with far too  insufficient support for far too long. My body was shutting down. I spent much of my 60th year in bed. The strain had … Continue reading

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Beyond Credentials: The Non-Negotiable Key to My Recovery

I had a years-long period when my functionality was so low that it was hard for me to leave the house. I was severely isolated by disability from repeated medical harm. My relationships with practitioners became my default primary social … Continue reading

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Rupture and Repair: How Breaks in Trust Can Be a Doorway to Something Better

Recently, I had a rupture repair session with one of my most trusted healthcare practitioners. About ten days before, we had a misattunement rupture when he dismissed what I said about my lived experience. I told him I was struggling, … Continue reading

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Hugs in the Treatment Plan: This Is What Care Feels Like 

Six years ago, a gynecologist at ChristianaCare cut away healthy tissue without my consent. That egregious violation of informed consent fractured my sense of safety in a medical environment, my relationship with my body, and my ability to trust that … Continue reading

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